{"id":4740,"date":"2026-09-12T15:01:45","date_gmt":"2026-09-12T09:31:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/food4thoughtfoundation.org\/journal\/?p=4740"},"modified":"2026-10-01T16:34:59","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T11:04:59","slug":"your-marks-are-not-your-identity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/food4thoughtfoundation.org\/journal\/your-marks-are-not-your-identity\/","title":{"rendered":"YOUR MARKS ARE NOT YOUR IDENTITY"},"content":{"rendered":"

A test paper is returned.<\/p>\n

Before looking at what you got wrong, you look at one thing.<\/p>\n

The number.<\/p>\n

    \n
  1. <\/li>\n
  2. <\/li>\n
  3. <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Someone beside you asks, \u201cWhat did you get?\u201d<\/p>\n

    Suddenly, the number feels less like feedback and more like a public announcement of how intelligent you are.<\/p>\n

    That is where we have a problem.<\/p>\n

    Marks are useful.<\/p>\n

    Schools need ways to understand whether students have learned important concepts. Tests can show what we understand, where we are struggling and what needs more practice.<\/p>\n

    But a useful measurement can become harmful when we turn it into an identity.<\/p>\n

    A student who receives high marks begins hearing, \u201cYou’re so smart.\u201d<\/p>\n

    A student who struggles begins hearing, sometimes without anyone actually saying it, \u201cYou’re not.\u201d<\/p>\n

    Neither message is particularly helpful.<\/p>\n

    The first student may become afraid of failure because being \u201cthe smart one\u201d has become part of who they are.<\/p>\n

    The second may stop trying because the result appears to prove something permanent about their ability.<\/p>\n

    But one examination measures performance in a particular subject, using particular questions, on a particular day.<\/p>\n

    That is all.<\/p>\n

    It cannot measure curiosity.<\/p>\n

    It cannot measure whether someone is a thoughtful friend.<\/p>\n

    It cannot measure creativity that the examination never asked for.<\/p>\n

    It cannot predict everything a person might become.<\/p>\n

    Even academically, a mark does not tell the entire story.<\/p>\n

    A student scoring 70 after months of determined improvement may have achieved something more meaningful than someone scoring 90 without having to stretch themselves at all.<\/p>\n

    Yet we rarely celebrate progress with the same enthusiasm that we celebrate rank.<\/p>\n

    This does not mean standards should disappear.<\/p>\n

    Students should work hard.<\/p>\n

    Teachers should assess learning.<\/p>\n

    Poor preparation should have consequences.<\/p>\n

    But the purpose of assessment should be to improve learning, not to turn classrooms into permanent scoreboards.<\/p>\n

    Imagine a different conversation after an examination.<\/p>\n

    Instead of beginning with, \u201cWhat did you get?\u201d<\/p>\n

    We could ask:<\/p>\n

    \u201cWhat surprised you?\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cWhich question caught you?\u201d<\/p>\n

    \u201cWhat will you do differently next time?\u201d<\/p>\n

    Those questions turn a test from a judgement into information.<\/p>\n

    Parents and teachers also have a role.<\/p>\n

    Praise effort, but not empty effort. Praise strategies that actually work: asking for help, practising difficult concepts, revising mistakes and returning to something after failure.<\/p>\n

    Most importantly, allow students to fail at something without treating the failure as a description of who they are.<\/p>\n

    A disappointing mark should be allowed to hurt.<\/p>\n

    It should also be allowed to end.<\/p>\n

    There will always be students who score more than us.<\/p>\n

    There will always be subjects that come more naturally to someone else.<\/p>\n

    Education becomes much healthier when the question changes from:<\/p>\n

    \u201cAm I smarter than them?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

    to:<\/p>\n

    \u201cDo I understand more today than I did yesterday?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Marks matter.<\/p>\n

    But they should remain what they were designed to be:<\/p>\n

    information about our learning.<\/p>\n

    Not a label attached to our name.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    A test paper is returned. Before looking at what you got wrong, you look at one thing. The number. Someone beside you asks, \u201cWhat did you get?\u201d Suddenly, the number feels less like feedback and more like a public announcement of how intelligent you are. That is where we have a problem. 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